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JTTHECLOCKMAN
06-21-2006, 01:19 AM
A Sad Sad Loss

On June 19, 2006 I lost a friend, a mentor, a buddy---- My DAD. He finally succumbed to the many illnesses that plagued him and challenged him over the last 5 years. I say though he always beat back the odds and pulled through but the last one was too much for his tired 82 year old body. The decisions my family had to make over this period of time were trying and difficult. But they were done out of respect and love for a man that always carried a smile and kind word. He could make you smile and feel good about yourself even on your worst days. He always had a song to sing, a poem to recite, or give you a yodel. Being an avid country music fan and Johnny Cash his favorite, he passed this tidbit on to me. For this I thank him for. He is also responsible for my love of woodworking because he taught me the use of the tools and how to take a pile of wood and turn it into a work of art. For this I am thankful for. He helped me make my decision of a vocation I wanted to undertake as my livelihood, which was Electrician. For this I thank him for. He is also responsible for my becoming an avid NY Yankee fan as he was, taking me to my first game some 45 years ago. For this I thank him for. He also loved his fishing and crabbing but this was one thing that never took hold of me but I thank him for the good times together. As a U.S. Navy veteran of WWII he taught me to love this country and all it’s freedoms and for this I thank him. He also instilled many of his good traits and life surviving skills and this I thank him for.

I know my Dad is in a better place now and can finally get the rest he deserves. I only hope I can live up to the standards that he had set. With a heavy heart I say I will miss my Dad a great deal.

At this time I want to say “Thank You” to all that have emailed me or PM me and offered their kind words and prayers. It meant a lot.

I know this is a woodworking forum but I needed a place to let some emotions out and this place has been good to me over the years so to all Thank You for allowing me this moment. I will be returning to the site as soon as possible.

wisconsinwoodch
06-21-2006, 10:25 AM
My feelings are with you, as I know what you are feeling, I lost my dad over 40 years ago an I still miss him. hang in there. best wishes
the wisconsin wood chuck. :)

cranbrook2
06-21-2006, 10:32 AM
I am very sorry to hear about your loss John . my condolences to you and your family.
like you said he is in a better place.much better
john

pops-shop
06-21-2006, 10:37 AM
John
Thank you for keeping us abreast with your dad. Our hearts and prayers are with you, your dad and your family. Yes, his pain and suffering are over and he is dancing a jig in a much better place.

fred

workinwood
06-21-2006, 05:31 PM
John,

Sorry, about your loss and our hearts and prayers are with you, your family.

God bless, you and your family are in our prayers.

lonepine
06-21-2006, 05:50 PM
John; So sorry to hear about your dad. May God give you comfort and stregnth in this difficult time. He is always with you,in your heart,you need only think of him. God Bless You. Bob

OPA1
06-21-2006, 11:33 PM
John

Sorry to hear of your loss. I too lost my dad three years ago and still think about him a lot. But, like the other guys said, his suffering and pain are over, he is in a far-better place. Our prayers and thoughts are with you and your family and may God give you strength at this time.



ED

Deanna
06-22-2006, 01:16 AM
Sounds to me that you father will live on through your fond memories of him and the times you spent together.

I lost my grandpa a couple of years ago, and while it was heartbreaking, I now smile whenever I think of him, as he had such an impact on my life, and my thoughts are always of happy times. My grandpa was also one for unique poems and songs. I now sing those songs to my children, (they roll their eyes at me) and I tell them that was one of my grandpa's songs.

My heart goes out to you, and I'm glad you were able to share with us.

Deanna

K&MScrollworks
06-22-2006, 03:04 AM
John our family is so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

Kris

bronco
06-22-2006, 03:49 AM
John,
I am so sorry about the loss of your dad. I lost my dad over 4 years ago, there isnt a day goes by I dont think of him and all the fond memories we had together. Dads are real special and it sounds like yours was a great guy. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers.
Bill

William Young
06-22-2006, 06:44 AM
My sincere condolences to you and your familiy John.
I have had my computer to the repair shop the last few days and this is the first that I heard of your loss. Our prayers are with you.
W.Y.

TIMBERTODD
06-22-2006, 12:14 PM
John,
My prayers go out to you and your family. I lost my dad last October and there isnt a day goes by that I do not think of him or thank him for all he gave me.
TIMBERTODD

GrayBeard Phil
06-22-2006, 10:35 PM
John:

I am sorry to hear of your loss. As long winded as I am, words fail me in extending my condolences.

Phil

JoeScroller
06-22-2006, 10:42 PM
John, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. We appreciate all that you do for us on the forum and our prayers are with you.

Joe

JTTHECLOCKMAN
06-25-2006, 12:08 PM
I would like to "THANK YOU" all from the bottom of my heart for all your kind words and prayers. As I read your posts I see others have experienced great losses as we all will. This is life. It just is so hard to accept at times and you say life is not fair why can't we all live forever and in peace. But then I remember that is what the after-life is all about and I start to smile. So now my Dad is at peace and free of pain and now will live on forever. I will always have the many many good memories we shared together and this will keep me going here on earth and just be waiting for the time when we can be reunited again with God's help. I know there will be many moments and items that will trigger memories of him and for this I thank him. I will cherrish those.

So again thanks for allowing me the time and thanks for reading and I will try to catch up with all the posts and make myself accessible again. You all are truely a great bunch and am proud to be amongst you.